Pat Green

Surviving Spouse Corner

Surviving Spouse Corner

Hello, today it feels like spring. I want to go outside and feel the warmth of the sun on my face. If that Punxsutawney rodent is correct, it will be Spring in two more weeks. This is a time of renewal. If you haven’t paid your dues YET, do it today. Come to the next meeting and greet old friends, and make some new ones.

A month ago, a few from your Board gave a presentation about the works of our Chapter. Afterward three members from the audience joined our Chapter. They are Billie Sue Giffen, Bonnie Callahan, and Rhoda Spang. We are so happy to welcome you into our group. These ladies all live in the Winter Park area. Rhoda attended the last luncheon, and was introduced by our President.

The Chapter has great plans. We need more members to share in the accomplishments and the work of running this Chapter. If you have a neighbor who is eligible for membership, or a friend who is a Surviving Spouse bring them to the next meeting. Our Board will be happy to greet them and explain the organization. Surviving Spouses are also invited to join the MOAA Surviving Spouse Virtual Chapter. This organization has no dues and meets virtually every Third Tuesday of the month. Almost two hundred Surviving Spouses meet via zoom meeting. The next meeting is March 15 at 1 pm. The agenda in March is formal with speakers explaining the Advocacy in Action effort that will attempt to persuade Congress to adopt bills that will support military issues.

The key issues for focus are the Major Starr Act, a pay raise for our service men and women, and the Tricare Mental Health Copayment.

It’s easy to join. There are no dues. You can do it on the MOAA.org website. If you have problems with the website, I can help. My contact information is on the first page of this publication.

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Surviving Spouse Corner

Surviving Spouse Corner

The Holidays are upon us. If you or someone in your family has suffered a loss, this may be a difficult time for you. If some time has passed, it may be time for some reflection.
Times change, people change, our lives change, and our circumstances change. That is Life’s path. I intend to be more adaptive in my life journey. Will you join me?
Here are a few strategies to try.
Share your memories:
Sort through photos and pick out some special ones and write about what was happening that day, or something funny or sweet that someone said in that moment. Be sure to identify the date, persons involved and if appropriate, add a caption.
Begin a diary or a journal and include remarks that reveal your feelings. If you can, do this in your own hand. I still am thrilled when I come upon something my mother, father or husband wrote to me.
Call an old friend or shut-in. A card is nice and appreciated, but a Christmas call will bring more smiles.
Create some new memories:
Start a new family tradition. Revamp your advent wreath or go to Midnight Christmas Eve services if the children are old enough. Let the kids plan the Christmas menu. Be flexible.
Create a new memory with friends. Try a holiday bridge luncheon, cookie exchange, or lunch and a movie. These may be successful and turn into traditions.
I have another suggestion you can do with family or friends, visit the Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell, FL.
On Saturday, December 18, beginning 10:30 am Wreaths Across America will remember and honor our veterans through the laying of Remembrance wreaths on the graves of our county’s fallen and saying their name aloud.

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