The Holidays are upon us. If you or someone in your family has suffered a loss, this may be a difficult time for you. If some time has passed, it may be time for some reflection.
Times change, people change, our lives change, and our circumstances change. That is Life’s path. I intend to be more adaptive in my life journey. Will you join me?
Here are a few strategies to try.
Share your memories:
Sort through photos and pick out some special ones and write about what was happening that day, or something funny or sweet that someone said in that moment. Be sure to identify the date, persons involved and if appropriate, add a caption.
Begin a diary or a journal and include remarks that reveal your feelings. If you can, do this in your own hand. I still am thrilled when I come upon something my mother, father or husband wrote to me.
Call an old friend or shut-in. A card is nice and appreciated, but a Christmas call will bring more smiles.
Create some new memories:
Start a new family tradition. Revamp your advent wreath or go to Midnight Christmas Eve services if the children are old enough. Let the kids plan the Christmas menu. Be flexible.
Create a new memory with friends. Try a holiday bridge luncheon, cookie exchange, or lunch and a movie. These may be successful and turn into traditions.
I have another suggestion you can do with family or friends, visit the Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell, FL.
On Saturday, December 18, beginning 10:30 am Wreaths Across America will remember and honor our veterans through the laying of Remembrance wreaths on the graves of our county’s fallen and saying their name aloud.